All humans want basically 1 thing: Supreme Happiness, the Ultimate Good…. Feeling good about themselves and their lives, every area of their lives.

There are lots of tools here on this planet at the moment, choose the one that resonates with you, but also be willing to expand your mind. Grow organically. Start with what intrigues you or you know is right for you.

It all starts with 2 questions:

1) WHAT DO I REALLY VALUE?

2) WHERE AM I AT?

Our reality is vast, it is not just about this body, if we let go of fear things will be revealed gradually. Our perceptions will change and our life will change. Our ability to discriminate will be based on Truth, resonance with the Self.

This is important because it allows us to be able to dream the dream we want.

If you want to change your life for the better and make it grow until you become aware of their Spirit again, by understanding the mechanism of your True Power, then you already understand that cooperation with the Universe is very important in all your life changes and improvements towards your goals or next stage in life.

That is why people need to have a solid technique and True Spiritual Path that allows them to have MATERIAL, MENTAL and SPIRITUAL development.

The Kriya Yoga path is slso is for people who are Aware of their Spirit and want intellectual and practical clarification on how to use their Awareness in a creative way.

I identified the teachings of Yoga as a resource of true connection with myself; as my self-nourishment; the food for my soul and an enhanced awareness. I am talking about all aspects of Yoga, not just the yoga postures known as Hatha Yoga, today much more used as a gymnastic mechanism. I refer to the methodology of Yoga that brings you in touch with your true nature, with the image of the Universe within you, some people call it God abiding, or living, in you.

Yoga is not a religion, is a methodology and a way of life. One could practice Yoga even if he’s a Christian, a Bhuddist, a Muslim, a Sufi, etc…

This is because the Universality of Yoga is such that it doesn’t belong to a system of beliefs, but it is made up of Universal Principles that are common to all religions. For example we find the principles of Love, of Peace, of Non-Violence. These are principles common to every true religion.

All true religions are also trying to point the way to happiness while avoiding suffering. Again this is a way of life based on principles. Yoga, with it’s beautiful methods gives one total Mastery over one’s life.

I practice Kriya Yoga, which is in itself a way of life and a methodology, especially as taught by Paramhansa Yogananda. And I have also been fortunate enough to have studied directly with two great teachers who had known Yogananda personally.

All the teachings that I will refer to here are highly inspired by the Kriya Yoga teachings, even if I have adapted their use to modern reality. I have NOT changed the teachings and the techniques, which are absolutely pure in their methodology and system, but I have adapted the philosophical principles into modern day practical living steps. In this way everyone can use Universal principles easily in their life and bring incredible improvements.

When I was a monk in India, one day I went to the cinema and I realized that people would not become monks, at least the majority……they wanted to be happy and be master of their lives…….. develop themselves……. They didn’t want to their lives to be interfered……. They wanted practical methods that worked that allowed them to take full charge of their lives.

In all Kriya Yoga and life Improvement classes I want to provide a space for Transformation, where people can find themselves in charge of their lives again. And if you are already in charge, transform what you still need to transform in order to be more happy. And if you are happy, then why not be totally free… FIND FREEDOM… in other words, start living in your own true divine nature, establish yourself there.

Here are some of the topics included in these wonderful teachings. And believe me, as I followed them, my life has changed incredibly, and so will yours.

Development of Dynamic Will Power

Human beings are self-hypnotized, thinking they are what they think, their body, their emotions.

They also think that they don’t have power over what happens in their lives. I am not talking about environmental control, but of matching the divine life with the earthly life.

The development of Dynamic Will Power will allow you to overcome this mental and emotional lethargy and you will find true resources of power to move on in life and move on mountains!

Development of Magnetism

Paramhansa Yogananda formulated this principle: “The higher the Will, the higher the Flow Energy. The higher the flow of Energy, the higher the Magnetism”.

The need for increasing the intake of energy, Life Force (we live by that).

More Life Force = More Life = More Happiness (energy up) = More Energy = Creation of Opportunities at Will.

Right use of affirmation

Not used to reinforce beliefs, but to affirm and realize your divine primordial origin and potential.

It is also another way of uniting the nature of the Self with the vibration, or pure sound, of your voice. This becomes “right speech”

Meditation Techniques

In the Kriya Yoga practices there are many wonderful meditation techniques that puts you in tune with the essence of who you are always more and always more quickly.

All the techniques can bring you liberation (identification and abiding in the Self, in your true divine nature). You are once again in full charge over your Life, for real.

The more advanced the technique the more the power, energy and advancement involved.

The Right Ground

This happens spontaneously and beautifully.

You need to have the will to improve and grow in your life. To become the best you can be. We all have good sides and bad sides, our choice must be to manifest the most beautiful and loving part of who we are.

We all know that we are good in the heart. Even when we do something wrong deep in our heart we can easily find a way to justify what we have done. This is because we can perceive the goodness in ourselves. Matching that goodness in our words and action is the right ground upon which all this methodology will grow.

Don’t have to think necessarily of a goal or how good another person is compared to you. In fact that person might seem good but it could be only appearance.

Do not compare your internal state to an illusionary external state!

PEOPLE ARE NOT THEIR ACTIONS.

I know that many people are skeptical on this statement, and I am not saying that one should not take responsibility on what he does.

What they do, their actions, represent what they are going through, but that could be a transitory period.

Do NOT judge. Go beyond the appearance, take a commitment with yourself, compete with yourself, every day do better than what you have done the day before. Step away from the appearances of good and bad, tomorrow things are going to be different because we live by cycles, and a cycle moves continuously between good and bad because the nature of the cycle is to try to balance itself out. But since there is movement, there is no balance.

A scale finds its point of balance when it finds stillness, and so it is, when you find stillness you find balance.

When you find balance you see clearly, there is no hypnotic self-imprisonment, you know how to create what you want, what is your life about, what is the next step, you find that you have another resource of knowledge: Intuition.

INTUITION INTELLIGENCE COMES FORTH!

Knowledge is not intellectual data. Knowledge is perception of Truth. Intuition is direct perception of Truth at any moment you need it, about what you need. Would you like to know what you need at the moment you need it (and just by  pure spiritual connection)? That is Intuition. It is a quality of the Soul that comes out naturally as we let go of the old idea that we are our mind patterns and emotions, or even our body.

THOUGHTS ARE UNIVERSALLY AND NOT INDIVIDUALLY ROOTED

This statement changed my Life. Once I understood and accepted this concept fully I knew I was not was I was thinking, but I was just attracting that thought into my head through the magnetism generated by my brain, which is of course working in terms of consciousness. In other words the brain is a magnificent storehouse of information programmed by your consciousness.

Being conscious of what is happening (it is not necessary to explain it) is your first step in taking consciously charge and responsibility over your life. In the recognition of what is happening in your brain, which in turns attracts your thoughts, you can consciously start changing the thoughts you attract.

It starts with a conscious decision. The will power of your choice generates magnetism, and that magnetic power attracts right thinking, right living, right opportunities.

The more conscious decisions you make the more you involve a change in consciousness. A change in consciousness is an energetic change, and that is of course a change of vibration. It is a shift in your center, and if you vibrate from another center you build a totally different life. What if you can choose from which center to vibrate?

The more will power you have developed, the more energy you have, and the more magnetism you have. The more magnetism you have, the higher your ability to change your life for the best.

Mind Shifting

Knowing that thoughts are not ours, but attracted to us, we can start making right choices for our life. What is in our consciousness will come to us. And this starts with conscious decisions and conscious intent.

Once you know through intuition what is right for you, and you have developed enough magnetism, then you can use the incredible tools of mind shifting. The more you use them, the higher the power they acquire.

Mind-Shifting is a particular method that allows you to approach your reality in order to change it. I largely use the method of Mind-Shifting in my personal life and in my trainings.

What you do is to project your current reality outside of yourself, transform it, and re-project into yourself what you have transformed. It is a principle. The more you use it, the more you become Master of your Reality.

Mind-Shifting uses the Laws of movement in this Universe, to get to the Source of Creation, and from there re-create a new reality into movement.

If you go to my website: www.joycelestial.com , you will see that I have also applied this concept into the practice of the yoga postures (go to the workshops page).

The techniques here can be extremely easy, and also more advanced. That depends on the experience one might have. It is the principle at work, following certain universal rules, that counts. The techniques may vary according to the situation, to the people, or even what kind of energies need to be involved.

BEFORE APPLYING ALL THESE TECHNIQUES, ASK YOURSELF: WHAT DO YOU VALUE IN YOUR LIFE?

This question was asked by one of my spiritual teachers: Goswami Kriyananda. Knowing what you value in your life is the first step in finding the direction of your life. Unless you answer honestly to this question, without answering what you thing you “should” be doing according to the voice other people have put in your head, you don’t have your direction in Life.

The answer to this question must be an honest answer. What are you looking for in all that you are doing? What is your real aim? Some people answer “I want to heal the world”, or “I want to find God-Consciousness”, but that’s not a honest answer. That is what they apparently seem to do, but it’s not the true answer and they know that. Be honest with yourself.

I realized that I am looking for Peace.

The real happiness in life comes when you unite what you are giving value to with making a real contribution to the world around you. But that is the second step that can never be taken without knowing what it is that you value for real.

You Life Purpose

This obviously lead us to the question: “Why am I here on this planet?” “What am I supposed to do?” “What is my Life Purpose?”.

And again, it all starts with 2 questions:

1) WHAT DO I VALUE?

2) WHERE AM I AT?

And it then gets more mystical and interesting.

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Vincent Sandee
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WHAT DOES LIFE PURPOSE MEAN?

It simply is the most natural function you have in your life that is in accord with the evolution of creation.

This is the mystical definition, but it is more accurate than the usual definition, which is: the reason why you were born.

To live the most natural function of your life, you must get in tune with the nature of you, at its restful level, where no desires take place and you find natural resources that you wish to share.

This is a perfect analogy to understand what is meant for Life Purpose. If you look at the Sun you know that is the source of life and energy for this world. The Sun doesn’t do anything special other than being itself, but as soon as it comes up in the sky, everybody wakes up, shops open, people go to work, everything happens! Plants receive their supporting life energy, and so do you. The Sun is the Sun, it doesn’t necessarily gain all the benefits it so naturally bestows, but it just “lives” its own purpose, naturally and effortlessly.

What is it that you ARE that is of greater benefit to others, mankind, and creation, in the most effortless way possible?

First answer this question with qualities you have,

Then answer with things you could do…. But always let the qualities be your leading guide.

The things you do might change as you evolve and change perspectives, but the beautiful qualities you have in relation to your natural being are part of the infinite spark through which you were created and they will make you shine and grow.

Some people simplify this question into “What are you really good at? What are your greater talents? And how can you use these in order to help others and be of benefit?”

This is a simplified version, but there’s a trap in it, because you could answer that your talent is your frustrated dream that has not been realized, or you could involve you ego in other unfruitful ways.

So here’s the question again:

What is it that you ARE that is of greater benefit to others, mankind, and creation, in the most effortless way possible?

First answer this question with qualities you have,

Then answer with things you could do…. But always let the qualities be your leading guide.

And the only way and moment you can answer this question is when you have reached a state of internal state of contentment and you do not have selfish desires to fulfill anymore. This can only be achieved by transcending your desire.

Meditation, Spiritual Practice. The Hong Sau technique is great for this (see my website).

HOW TO OVERCOME FEELING DEFEATED IN THE SEARCH OF ONE’S LIFE PURPOSE?

The answer to this question becomes now simple: the only reason why you feel defeated is because you have mixed feelings.

On one side you want to be of service and on the other you want to add to it whatever it is that you always wanted to do but you couldn’t.

Life purpose and selfish desire do not go well together. That doesn’t mean that your dream job could not be part of your life purpose, but again, the Sun is the real “star” of this planet, but it doesn’t claim popularity. The Sun is popular because everyone needs it.

So, balancing your emotional traits and finding contentment is a solution. Having no expectation from others other that you living your purpose. And how do you find your purpose? Answer that question I shared with you before, but before attempting to answer, meditate long enough until your life as you know it is far away and long gone.

In other words, detach yourself from the perception of your life as you know it, move into the spiritual world and you will find a new you beyond all knowledge being present. Then the natural you will tell you  your life purpose.

Most important! Find your life purpose, do not live someone else’s life purpose. Do not be guided by the shadows and the voices of your ancestors, family, friends and teachers. They can only speak as they perceive life in their own way, and most of the time these perceptions are guided and distorted by the filters of their subconscious as well as the media.

So make an effort and take a courageous commitment with yourself to find your purpose, by transcending desires and finding contentment through direct contact with your spirit.

Really, the Hong Sau technique will help you go into that neutral spiritual place where you can perceive your nature as you really are. Then you can start becoming aware of the right answers for you. (Find it on my website)

HOW TO CLEAR FEAR IN THE SEARCH OF ONE’S LIFE PURPOSE AND WHEN ONE HAS FOUND THEIR LIFE PURPOSE?

This is also a good question, which is really 2 questions.

In regards to fear, you must ask yourself, fear of what exactly? Fear of being disappointed? Fear of being humiliated? Fear of being not good enough? Not prepared?

What are the images you have in your mind? Then face those images and start modifying them on purpose.

Most of all, question these fears. Are they really so important? Are they really based on truth? Is there really something you should be fearful about?

You clear fear by understanding that you might have led your life through the opinion of someone else and that you thought was yours, for example, even though you got attached to it. Get rid of old responsibilities that are not real and just made up. You don’t have to live the dream you had when you were 15 years old if it doesn’t fit today, even if all the people around you had great expectations upon it.

You can understand and analyze your life and see why what you did and wanted would now not serve you anymore so that it loses its grip on you, and you lose interest in it.

What is the worst thing that could happen? You probably wouldn’t die.

Ok, you might become aware of some shortcomings that you will have to fix…. So?

Isn’t it better to know what you really are supposed to be doing that spending years wondering in darkness?

You will have found your life purpose when you live what you are, and what you ARE and do is automatically, and in the most effortless way, of benefit to all the people around you and you can bring that purpose wherever you go, to a shop, at work, in the family, etc…

Your purpose doesn’t necessarily have to do with the job you have, even though it can.

This ultimate way of living your life’s purpose can only come through enlightenment. When your presence is automatically enlightening, most useful, and helpful to everyone and everything. Just like the Sun.

I have always wanted to know how to find my life purpose. How do I find out how to discover my life purpose? Once I have discovered my purpose, how do I follow my heart?

Again, your life purpose manifests as you go along with what you really are and act from that level 24/7. It is obvious anyway, that we can’t wait to be enlightened in order to try to do the right thing. We must do something, we need to try.

So yes, as we try to get in touch with our true nature, we need to listen to ourselves and see what kind of recurrent thoughts we have that say: “yes, I should probably do that”, and start doing it. Or a recurring deep seated desire can be a signal that we need to go in that particular direction in order to discover what’s next.

This is the call your soul is calling you to for your growth. But the things you will do will change. You need to be able to adapt, adjust and acclimatize. You must be willing to be flexible in the change. Your external reality will always change.

The heart can guide you yes, but its energy can either go down, towards disappointments and attachments, or up towards your true purpose.

Open your heart fully…. Squeeze your shoulder blades together and breathe into your heart several times until you perceive its presence. Then realign the neck back in line with the spine as you keep your chin parallel to the floor and breathe in until you bring that sensation in the heart up towards the point between the eyebrows.

Once you are at the point between the eyebrows, which is the seat of higher Wisdom, ask yourself about the right direction to go. In the form of feeling. Then let go of the question, having an unbreakable faith as you know you are going to receive an answer. This faith is not effortful, you are not forcing the answer, you just know for sure that it will happen, it is automatic it is due.

Finally, if you don’t know how you could start, if you really feel like your life should have more meaning and you don’t know yet what your life purpose is then make one.

How do you make one? Think about what’s meaningful in life, for you, this is for you to answer. And make that your life purpose. You might want to pick up on your experience, on your life, but think about what in your opinion is most important, think about the meaning behind what you have been doing, what is really meaningful about it, and make that your life purpose. Spread that meaningful understanding. Take it from there. Later on it might change, but if you start living with the attitude of sharing purpose, your life purpose will in time manifest as day follows night.

I hope you understand that this doesn’t mean interfering with other’s people’s lives. If others will have to benefit from it, they will, without you forcing it to them. What can you do that is really meaningful and important today, that doesn’t depend on someone else’s approval or on some else as the object of your experiment. What can you do of benefit that would allow to gently and secretly drift behind the curtain?

Or, another ways of seeing it is this:

Start living restfully in today’s moment, and ask yourself: what can I do today to leave this place better than I found it?

The place you must contribute to is the planet earth, humanity, or you direct environment. Again, you must do so unconditionally, this must allow you to disappear after you have done your job. It is service based on your being.

What you can you do to leave this place, this evening, better than you found it this morning?

And if we would all follow what the answer of this question suggests for each of us, then we would all contribute, on a small or larger scale, to improve life, to improve existence. And one at the time, we will help to bring heaven here on earth.

As we live purposefully, our life purpose is and will be revealed. The purpose of life, is revealed through people, like you, who want to live purposefully.

I hope all these questions have been answered, and I have said what I had to say at the moment.

If you have other questions, please feel free to write to me. Go to www.joycelestial.com and contact me through the contact page.

Tune in next week to LIFE OPEN MIRACLES, see you there! Joy to you!

Vincent Sandee
(Swami Ekabuddhyananda)

http://joycelestial.com

LIFE MYSTICAL LESSONS
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When confusion takes over it is best to re-analyze our life and see what it is in the first place that brought us there. In other words, what was our motivation, what was the reason why we started the journey, to get into this particular pathway?

In our everyday life we are bombarded by all different kinds of information and it is very easy to lose track. While at the moment a new idea is born it is easy to find a way to accomplish our goal, we then lose the sight of our goal as we move into that pathway we think will bring us to the destination…. But it is actually bringing us, maybe somewhere, but definitely to some place of confusion.

That pathway sometimes is no longer clear at the moment we start walking it, and this is for two main reasons:

1)      We realize that we need something else other than what we have considered; we realize that we need more tools, more information, more training, more, more, more…..

2)      Therefore we change the goal by changing our mind. Our mind is not focused directly on the purpose anymore and we are convinced that there is something else we need to achieve first, or it is more important to achieve something else than what we have planned.

Again, the result for all this is: we get stuck. Now, some people put out lots of energy trying to achieve a goal, and at the end of it they find themselves exhausted. They have lost their spirit and their energy in the process, and they have nurtured their ego and sense of self-centered power. and instead of giving them power, they realize that the pursue of that goal has actually deprived them of power. They have put themselves into a pedestal and, sooner or later, they will realize they missed something… the contact with the spirit of what they were trying to accomplish.

Confusion sneaks in without us even noticing it and at some point we have lost our most powerful treasure, that sense of inspiration that drove us forward at the beginning. What was it?

So today I am going to show you how to get back in touch with that purpose and how to do it in the most simple way.

THE SIMPLEST PRACTICE

So, here’s the simplest approach one should take towards making his life much more simple and directed towards inspired action: COME BACK WHERE YOU WERE. Bring yourself back there mentally, close your eyes and do it now. Maybe you can really do it right now. What is it in your life that seems to have lost significance? It could be anything, your relationship, a specific point in your career, your spiritual path. Think about it and keep it right there in front you in your mind. Now close your eyes and bring yourself back to the point where you first embraced that idea. Take your time and bring yourself back there. What was it that motivated you to start taking that idea into a reality? And what was its purpose? Was the purpose good for your soul, for your body, for your mind, for your emotional balance? Is that purpose still good for you? Go back there and feel it again.

Now, you will instantly how many diversion on the path you have taken. Do you think you have moved forward all the time towards accomplishing that purpose into your goals? Are your goals accomplishing that purpose?

Ok, depending on the individual there might be different responses. For example, some people are disconnected with their goals and purpose. In other words, they feel the exuberance of having found a worthy purpose to pursue, but then they set their pathway into accomplishing lots of goals that might not be directly related to their purpose. The line needs to be straight. You must set goals that are in DIRECT relation to the purpose of your idea. If you want to help people, for example let’s say you are a healer, then you should start healing, and set goals only to start healing people directly. Most people think that they need to build first a huge platform, a huge company, and huge income, etc… so that then they can start fulfilling their purpose, and of course they get lost in the way. But if you are a healer and you start creating opportunities and situation for you to heal and for people to be healed, then what is necessary to do will come up, and you can either do it yourself for the sake of your purpose, or you can even outsource it as you continue to follow your purpose.

Some people realize that the motivation that drove them at the beginning sound wrong to them now, or that are not in relation with who they really are. So they realize they have been going through a pathway that doesn’t really resonate with their purpose and also realize that what gave them energy was put on the side.

I would like you to think of a time where you felt absolutely great, where you felt exuberant and excited, when, even if for a tiny moment, hundreds of thousands of doors of possibilities opened in front of the screen of your mind and the wind of a great new change, of new incredible directions touched you gently. What was it? What was the purpose of what you had in mind at that time. Bring yourself there and find the purpose of what was worth following.

Was that giving you energy as you would it? Was that also bringing you peace and a sense that that was  the right thing to do? Not because someone told you, but because you had that sense spontaneously within you.

SIMPLE PATHWAYS TO ACCOMPLISH

1^ST PATHWAY

Draw a straight line between where you are now and to the full accomplishment of your purpose. Please note that I said your PURPOSE and not your goal.

Now fill up the line with dots. Every dot is a station, a step through which you are going to move forward towards the accomplishment of that purpose from where you are now. It is that simple.

Follow the steps and, if after the first step you realize there is another step that will draw you closer to the full expression of your purpose and more quickly, then again change the line and re-draw the dots. In all this, KEEP ALWAYS THE PURPOSE at your sight on the paper. You current situation might change, and your pathway might change.

When you think you will have reached your purpose, then maybe you will want to live your purpose for all your life, or build and expand on your purpose.

If you have trouble in getting the steps done, then follow this easy procedure than many people already know: try again in different ways until you can do more of what works and less of what doesn’t until you reach your destination

2^ND PATHWAY

Decide where you want to go and keep it in front of your eyes always. Start going there. Keep on going until you get there. That’s it.

I love this second pathway, because it is easy to remember. And very effective. But the first one is incredibly good and it helps to build a good and easy strategy to get where you want while also keeping your mind open to a possible change in your strategy as you get closer to your goal.

Strategies can only be understood in relation to where you are now, and where you are now will change consistently as you move forward. With these two methods for following a pathway you can keep it simple.

Remember only choose what brings you directly to your purpose without diversion. Resist the temptation of thinking that you need to do 500.000 things before you can even start going in the direction of your purpose, that’s an illusion. That’s why many people don’t see meaning into their life. Yes, you need the courage to live your purpose it’s true. But why not preparing and learn while doing? Why not having enough humility to change your approach so that you can always say “I am not sure about this, let me check it out and I will come back to you in a few hours”?

Start living your purpose now. Or start living for what you think is right, make that your purpose and start to think about its meaning. What is the meaning that has in your life? What is its deepest meaning, and what is the purpose of it?

You see, by right questioning, by just taking the time a few minutes a day to start bringing back your purpose up into your mind and clarifying it, make it clear until you know that that is it, then you will also be able to create a simple pathway that will lead you there.

Another reason why people get confused is because they don’t clarify the purpose of what they are doing enough, therefore they do something else, they follow goals that are disconnected with their true purpose and that do not bring them anywhere really. This is because their personality is split in two. On one side they have not defined well their purpose and they start setting goals that do not serve them well, and on the other side, they subconsciously know they should be looking for something else and therefore, when they write their goals, they don’t even achieve the wrong destination they have set, because they subconsciously try to set goals that will drive them towards their true purpose. So the purpose is wrong, and the goals they set are not right either for the wrong purpose or for the right purpose.

Take a few minutes out of your day, and start seeing the real purpose of why you are doing what you are doing, or make your purpose something that you think it is right to do, and think, meditate upon its deepest meaning.

And write goals that will lead you directly there. Forget about what you have been doing before. Just see what you could do to get there.

Now, when life gets extremely complicated, it is time to simplify. Come back to what is important. First things first. If Clarity + Simplicity gives you a Powerful Pathway to follow, your life will also be benefited by the right actions as you give importance to what needs to be important. Clarify, make it simple and clear. Do not wait that someone becomes perfect, or that you become perfect. Life is not about being perfect, it is about doing your best, it is about learning, it is about good will. You can be of benefit to yourself, to the world around you and God loves you for this and for who you are.

A mother and a father love their children for who they are, they see the good and the best in you, and you can be the best of who you want to be if your clarify and decide to be yourself in the good version of who you are, if you are now what you would like to be.

I am open to respond to your emails and questions. Go to http://joycelestial.com and send me an email through the contact page.

To Your Joy and Success
Vincent Sandee
(Swami Ekabuddhyananda)

http://joycelestial.com

Welcome to another Life Catalyst Blog Post!

According to the great mystical tradition of yoga, you are made of energy and therefore you are more than just the physical body.
And according to the same tradition ENERGY COMES FIRST. So whatever is in your energy, sooner or later, will find manifestation in your external physical world.

GOOD NEWS:
The good news is that this is also true in regards to where you DECIDE to direct your energy. This has also to do with the Power of your own true intention, and the more conscious it is the better it is.

BAD NEWS:
Tricking people and circumnstances would not work well, because you should always be aware of this question:

What is my intention behind this?

Lying would not work, sorry! Your intention is what it is, and it is in direct relationship with the energy you are putting forth. Therefore you will reap what you have sown.

YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH EVERYTHING

The main concept I would like to share with you today is this:
Start seeing your life as relationship based. I don’t mean with people only, but also with things and circumnstances. If you, as a person, are made of energy, also things and circumnstances are energy based. How you relate to them is the key.
The relationship in energy that you have with everything determine its transformation into something positive. This is known as mystical alchemy, or even the sumbilmation of a ciurcumstance into a great blessing.

PRACTICAL ADVICE
When something happens in your life see how you are “relating and responding” to it, exactly in the same way you would do with people, but on an energetic level. Of course you will know that you are inwardly relating to an object or to an event, but your own energy will relate to that energy.

Here are a few things to consider:

MAGNETISM: What is my response to this person/object/event? Am I attracting or am I repulsing?
Some people want to attract, only to discover that their internal attitude (where their energy is directed) is internally repulsing what they would like to have.

DISTANCE: Are me and this person/object/event close or far away from each other?
If you want something to be near you, direct your energy in that direction. If you want something to be far away from you but it is getting closer, then you should something.
When talking about this point I have seen that lots of people come up with things like: “I can’t because…. ” . Most of the time it is just excuses. These people are not willing to put enough energy into motion to win the inertia.
Some other time it is just a matter of defining once again your priorities in life. What are your real priorities? This is a very important question, in fact it will help you redifine what you need to do, and want!
At some point you should work on making what you want and what you really need match perfectly.

This brings us to our next point.
CHAOS-CLARITY KINGDOM – In which kingdom are you living in regards to this person/object/event?
Asking the right questions will bring you from chaos to clarity. Once clarity is achieved you gain incredible power and access to whatever it is that you want. Chaos will lock you in darkness. Clarity will make you untouchable and it will bring blessings and light into your life.

THE REAL LIFE BATTLE – Which side is it winning when it comes to you with this person/object/event? Fear or Love?
The great battle we all go through is between fear and love. Again, in this dual world, one relates to darkness and one to light. Which side is it winning? If you wish it to be love (and you should — it is good for you and for anyone/anything involved) then work on it.
Here is the question you should ask yourself: What is it between me and love? What do I need to do to get there exactly?
Most people realize they have resentments and grow old with that. Now it is the time to know that no one has real power over you, you don’t have to fear to lose your life, the control of your being, or whatever your darkest fear is. A good practice of forgiveness, repeated several times in a months, will break old fearful cycles and renew yourself into a new loving cycle.

OVERALL LIFE ANALYSIS – How else I understand to be relating/responding to this person/object/event?
See what are the main patterns at play in your life in terms of relationships and know what you can do about it. In this phase of your enquiring you should make an overview of your relationship with a person/object/event and then think on how you would like it to be different.
Once clarity is established in the new beautiful and positive picture, then you should replay it energetically in your mind with all new positive images and impressions. The energetic application of your mind-ideas, has then to be transmuted into concrete energy, then into energetic actions, and then you will see a manifestation of your life.

CONCLUSION
The question though is always the same one: When will you stop reading it and start doing it?

I wish you the greatest Joy

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Hello and welcome to another Life Catalyst Blog Post!

Today there is a great interest in developing intuition and in moving beyond the limits of our own 5 senses.

I consider this to be great, since we are so much more than what we can possibly perceive with the 5 senses, we include movements in consciousness and energy. If we could perceive those more strongly than what we perceive with our 5 senses we could stop identifying with what is something that could limit us and new doors would open.

Intuition, which is also known as the 6th sense, is now widely used in business and even in scientific research, and most people would swear that intuition is the key to their achievements, whatever they may be.

According to Yoga, intuition is located at the Ajna-Sun chakra, which can be found at the root of the nose between the eyebrows. This chakra, which is also known as the spiritual eye, is the bridge to make our intuition part of our conscious life. It is also known as the center of command, therefore it is the key to move beyond bad influences that we may have in our life.

In order to have access to the spiritual eye of intuition, we must learn to balance the energies within our system. The spiritual eye is created by a projection of all the balanced energies in your system, and therefore it can’t be accessed through just wishful thinking or imagination if your energies aren’t balanced enough.

Obviously there are various degrees of balance,  and various degrees of intuitive access, but we talk here about a basic way of living that brings harmony instead of random confusion.

Most people show interest in intuition just because they are not grounded and want to “fly”. But the truth is:

1. you need to be grounded,
2. then you need to find purpose,
3. then you need to direct energy into that purpose
4. then you need to keep your humanity and abadnon yourself to the Highest
5. ultimately you must try to merge with what is Highest

This also means that all that is not necessary will disappear, since your energy and focus are constantly directed towards what’s worth. You will also see that your life gets simpler, and more balanced.

A balanced life, is the key to balancing your energies. Whwen a greater balance is ahcieved, the spiritual eye is automatically created and your intuition increases. Especially if you want this to happen.

We’ll talk more about this subject.

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Welcome to another Life Catalyst Post!

If you are getting stuck in life, and feel you need something to happen in order to move on, you might find it interesting to read this post.
And even if you feel your life is great, then read this post anyway, as it might enable you to help others better!

We all find obstacles and obstructions when moving towards what we want (or most of the time, what we think we want). However, we can only act on life as we see it, and follow our dreams as we perceive them.

When you find yourself stuck it simply means you got into the “wrong alley”, you can always get back and keep on going, find other ways of doing what you need to do in order to get closer to your dream.
The idea that there are no failures, but only feedback, has helped a lot of people. Defining it as feedback helps you to overcome the psychological lethargy that comes as a result of not seeing the results you wished.

This happens to all of us at different times of our lives. In the moments of transition this is especially true! but focusing on problems doesn’t create solution, while stretching gently the mind in a way that will open new doors will put you in tune with new solutions.

When that is needed, here is a list of that you might refer to in order to gain a positive mind-set that will focus you on solutions instead of problems.

REDEFINE YOUR GOAL
First of all you need to go back to your goal and redefine it. Your goal has probably changed in little details and nuances as you move on. In fact our own intuition always shows us what our next step is about, but as soon as that step is taken new necessities comes into play. It is important to redifine your goal often, until you find the joy and enthusiasm you had at the beginning.
Make it clear, and have to courage to state it out loud, and see how you are feeling. Sometimes we are uncomfortable with what we want to achieve, and if you find uneasy to state your goal out load in a clear way, if you find some resistance in your mind, you  must learn to accept your goal, love it, and know that it is your right to achieve it (if that doesn’t hurt anyone, including you).

DECIDE YOUR CHANGE
Then check back into your reality. What is it that you would like to change? You can ask yourself questions like, what put me in the direction that led me here (where you didn0t want to go)? Have a look at where you are at and what changes would be necessary to get where you want to go. 
If you realize that there is too much to do, you might just want to do the next thing, and let the rest be done as you go along. Even then, you will find it necessary to redefine again the goal once more and see what needs to be done. The mind is an amplifier, it thinks there is too much to do, it thinks problems are huge, but that happens only because you find yourself in the middle of it. As you realize that things only appear to be in such a way, but it is not necessarily as they are, then you know that the next step is what is required, and what it will be required in the future too.
Also consider that, most probably, as you start taking action towards your new change your condition will be different than what it is now, therefore your need to re-evaluate.
Deciding your change is important. You are bringing your goal, and life, back into a greater balance. You are moving a little closer to your dream.

YOU ARE NOT THE PROBLEM
You are not the problem, but you have the problem.
The problem is not your identity, the problem is something you came across.

ASK YOUR MEMORY FOR HELP
Bring yourself back in time, and remember how wonderfully you have coped in the past. Those same resources are within you now, and you will find ways of apllying them to the task at hand.

CLARIFY
It would be good to bring clarity on the main issues you might have, so you can first balance them and then move freely towards your dream.
Fixing issues sometimes includes other people. If that’s the case, remember that you can only fix the issues upon which you have control. Some aspects of your issues might under the control of someone else, and in that case there’s not much you can do. Move in the realm that you can control.
Again, as I have always stated, we are not alone, we have a great power within us, and the help of something much greater than we can imagine. Ask constistently for the help of the Universe and you will find it aazing to see how things starts gently falling into place.

STRENGTHS
Make a list of your strengths, and use those to move further. Take some time to perceive them and do it until you feel you can use them.

RESOURCES
Look around you and ask yourself: what resources do I have right now to get closer to my dream? Use them (again if that involves other people, remember that certain things aren’t in your control). Most of the time we have lots of “equipment” we can use, and we think we need more as an excuse for not wanting, or lacking the courage, to face our issues. Get over it, move on.
Remember to use your inner resources too, your strengths.

In Conclusion
In other words, instead of dwelling on the problem, look for solution, get into that mindset, reassess your strengths and redefine your goal. There is always a better way of doing somehting and know that you may need to try different solutions before getting to the right one.
Use all the inner and outer resources available to move on to the next step. Remember to use Unversal compassion as another important resource.
Finally know that you can do it. You have coped with your life brilliantly until now, and most of the problems you had 1 year ago have now completely disappeared.

I hope this was helpful. As usual, I appreciate your sincere comments!

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Welcome to another Life Catalyst Blog Post.

This is the general transcription of the Radio show entitled “New Opportunities and Financial Improvement“, which you can downalod here:

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QUESTION
I want to move to San Diego California to expand my (Animal Acupressure) work.
My deepest questions..tough question.  I am afraid, that I can’t do this by myself, take care of myself on a long-term needs.  Moving and starting over, new people, finding a place to live and everything required is a Pattern for me. This one [maybe this time*] I want to meet the people my Soul long’s for.
I want this to be safe, fun, comfortable, easy…not a struggle, which is feels like right now, especially feels physically challenging. Have all the Masters and Adepts experienced this struggle to move forward in their human lives?

ANSWER
Certain things are definitely out of our control and we might need help. We could do it alone once we have established a solid foundation. Therefore my opinion here is that you need to find the earth element of your new change… this means that you need a foundation. Look for someone who has it, or who would help you in sharing the struggles, especially someone who’s practical on what you are missing at the moment.

Another solution would be to learn, and get the foundations yourself. If you choose this way of doing it, know that it needs time and you need to plan your learning. Therefore you must dedicate a certain period of time to learning, acquire the earth quality of your new change, and then transfer what you have learned into concrete step by step actions.

Another solution would be to start being part of another institution where they are doing similar work and join them with your service, until you will be ready to go on your own.

The real important thing is to organize it. If you can’t ground it in facts and action, you must ground it on paper, crystallize it. Build the earth element, do NOT leave it in the mind.

The fact that you want to meet people your soul longs for, and want it to be safe, it can be done. You should send out the request to God and to the Universe to help you, guide you, and protect you. You should abandon yourself completely during the practice of HONG SAU, and after the practice, you could continue your abandonment expressing your concern and needs to God. Get God on your side. Sit as you were in His true presence right here and now, and abandon yourself. Say “Take my life in your hands, I would like ‘this and that’, if it is your will… but I know that you want my greatest happiness and peace”.

The struggles Masters and Adepts have gone through are many and of different kinds… some of them where monks and their struggles where of different nature, sometimes highly mystical some other times psychological. We must remember that we should see our lives, whatever it is, from a mystical point of view, where we have a place in the Cosmic Net of God.

QUESTION
Dear Mr. Sandee, good day! I just want to know how could I improve my financial status in life, I want to be financially successful so that I could be a blessing to all who are also financially down. Thank you and may God bless you always in your good plight in helping more people just like me.

ANSWER
There are various ways through which you can improve your finances. All of these methods require energy and dedication, and in my opinion there is no lazy way of doing it.

First of all, organize your time better and clear your clutter, so that you CAN work smarter and not harder. Start cleaning your desk, through small papers that have been there for months and that you have stored in some parts of your drawer. Clean, clean and clean. Tidy up, tidy up, tidy up.

This is preparation work. And now another preparation work:

Start healing your relationship with money. When you think about money what do you think? If you think negatively about it, or if there is lots of conflict, it simply means that you have obstructed the pathway between you and money. Some people think money is evil, money is at the base of vice, it is hard to get, it never shows up, people with money are bad, if money comes it will also go soon, etc… Now think of money as energy. Everything is energy based. If you relate to it with this state of mind you are associating the form of money to that kind of energy and it will behave and react to your life in the way you focus your energy.

Money is money, money is energy, energy is energy. It doesn’t matter what it is, it can go downward or upward. It is the same energy, but it has two possible direction, down or up. If you make it go down, you will have a hard time with it, not balanced at all. If you make it go up it will acquire vibrancy.

Also think of money as your friend. If you say to one of your friends the he is evil, that he only belongs to bad people, and that you are disappointed with him, what will happen is, most probably, that you will lose a friend.

So think of your best friend, or the best person you can think of, and write down all of his/her qualities, than make money your best friend. You will see you might have resistance, if you have it just say to yourself: “Yes, this is how it was before, but now I am changing my relationship with money, I want a better relationship with it”. This is an important message to your subconscious mind, you have to embrace the messages of your subconscious mind and not ignore them. Your subconscious cannot be fooled, but you must wisely re-direct it towards what you want.

Then, I would suggest you to write a list of all your talents. Of things that you can do very well, and things that you could do very well if you just had a little training and/or learning. So write that down, it is very important to crystallize your thoughts. Then, let some time pass, maybe a day, and forget about yourself, forget about yourself completely. Then ask this question:

“If I were looking for this specific service (one of the things you can do very well) what would I want to find?”

Then readjust your service to provide that.

Then ask the same question to other people, or try to find answers from other people, like through forums for examples, or asking directly to them, and readjust your service as you receive more answers. It is the form of your service than needs adaptation and not your talents, really important. Yes, you might realize that you have to learn something new, and do it, but you don’t have to wear a role otherwise you will not have a true basis upon which to build real prosperity.

And, as I said, work smarter, organize your mind and work better. Make it clear in your mind just before you start, and then go straight to the point. It will require so much less time and your work will have shape.

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Hello Everyone, and welcome to another Life Catalyst Blog Post!

Please have a look at this picture. As you can see it is an optical illusion. The picture seems to be moving, when it is obvsiously not moving. It is our “faulty” vision that makes it move, and the only way to stop that movement is to fix your gaze at one point. At that point, not only we stop the movement and we can see what the picture really is, but we also have a larger grasp of the picture itself.

The reality that life offers us is a faulty reality, which we can understand only if we are able to concentrate and develop our awareness more. What we perceive with our ever-flowing mind becomes our reality just because we perceive it to be so, erroneously.

We can live fullly present in this moment if we learn how to stop the moving perceptions that make us identify with a faulty reality. As you have probably heard by many people and teachers, the present moment is the one that we have, all the rest is a waste of energy. Our consciousness is not anchored if not through the awareness of the present moment.

Listen to the episode of AWARENESS OF THE SOUL entitled “Live in the Now to Program Your Destiny”, to see how you can change your life with a very powerful and mystical practice.

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Welcome to another Life Catalyst Blog!

Welcome to another Life Catalyst Blog Post!

Seen the response on the Soulmate Connection topic, I thought it would have been beautiful to show your questions (without showing your name), and then posting the answers here, for yours and anyone’s benefit.

So this is the overall transcript of the radio shows on Soulmate Love that you can even listen at
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I hope you will enjoy this rich post.

To Your Joy and Success
Vincent

This is a long time topic for me.  I been single all my life. I had a very special love once, but
he was not committed to me, we did bring in a beautiful daughter.  In a recent reading a new love is a possibility.
How to find him or him find me is my question???

Meditations- You can actually connect with your soulmate wherever he is. At the base of his soul he is immortal and omni-pervading, just as you are. So as you go deeper in meditation, the less is the distance between you too.
This process has two phases:

1)  You heart needs healing at first, so you need a mediation that heals your heart, like a visualization or kind of breathing
—- then you need some time to adapt your life to a healed heart —–
2)  You go deep in meditation and visualize your aura expanding all around the planet, or at least having it in mind. meditate deeper to the point that you also consider the presence of the Universe in it, like watching over all that happens in the world, being over all movements. At that point, with the Universe by your side, you ask for a connection with the deepest soul of your soulmate. He must be present somewhere. Even though he is not present there physically, his soul that is part of his transcendental nature is present. He might not be aware of it, but he will hear the call.

Then you need time. You need to have faith that God provides all that you need. This is an important point. one of the first things to do is to understand that we are not alone over here. We have God actively present that is putting forth all that we need and even all that we want. We need to be able to receive by matching more and more our energy with God’s energy.

Yes, surely i have a few problems in looking for my real soulmate for my future.
I have problem with my friends, they always judge me wrong in whole chance. I need a solution. For a long time until now, I have always been feeling in the same condition..How must I repair?  I ‘m to trying to be kind to all my friends…

I talk about reflection in my soulmate connection course. Sometimes judgments from other people come because there is a part of ourvselves that thinks it need to be treated that way. Another possible answer is that the Universe is speaking “LOUD” to you so that you can finally get the lessons (nightmare have this function usually).

The important thing to understand here, is that this is NOT between you and them, but it is about the “movie” of life that you are projecting. Go to the projector directly, through meditation, and ask that your challenges may be softened and that harmony would prevail over all inharmonies. This is absolutely possible.Ask that you might be Aware of what you need to learn anyway, but with love, peace and harmony. You can ASK things to be different, ask it sincerely, speak to the Universe, to God, as if HE was the person with which you had the greatest confidence and relationship with.

I am wondering, is the quest for a soulmate different for a man than a woman?
What are the differences?

This is an excellent question.

If you follow the approach explained in the Soulmate Connection Course, you will see that the consciousness we are tapping into in order to find love is a NON-DUAL consciousness. This means that it is not male or female in itself, it just IS. Love is the binding force of the Universe, if you get yourself in tune with Love, you are binding those things which you love into you, your system and your reality.

A practice to develop this feeling and understanding is to close your eyes, and start blessing everyone. From your heart and from your hands visualize or feel loving effortless energy flowing and bless anyone, as if you were living from a different dimension, one of wisdom where things are just right, seen under the right perspective.

If you can do that, you will see that at some point the pure feeling of love will start pouring. People and circumstances will start smiling at you. On the other hand, if you can’t tap into that consciousness yet, then yes there is a difference. It is called symbolic expression of the self.

Let me explain it through Astrological symbols. Symbols are active energies into our lives, portals towards the infinite.

For example in astrology a male energy is symbolized by Mars, and a female energy is symbolized by Venus. How you love is symbolized by the Moon. You must realize that you are trying to find satisfaction of the what the moon represents for you and that you are moving towards Mars or Venus.

How are you moving? Then you have to look at the Sun sign and see if it is a water-air-fire-earth sign.

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How you move:
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Water: through feeling

Air: through the intellect and ideas

Fire: Through the initiator flame of dynamic will power

Earth: To know and have clarity upon physical facts.

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Energy in Meditation:
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Cardinal: initiator of a spark, the initiating flame of creation

Fixed: radiating to a point in yourself or from a point in yourself

Mutable: spiral magnetic energy

I have too many questions about my boyfriend.. I love my boyfriend and it’s a long story. He is now not contacting me at all…he is in a different country and when he goes back home he doesn’t contact me.. every time he leaves me and when he comes back to school he sends me emails..but it is complicated because he doesn’t tell me specific things about our future. I wish I could marry him..I m pretty sure he loves me too but I do not know what is his problem. I just want to marry him and that’s it.

My suggestion is that you need to balance your emotionality here. You can’t see clearly when the waves of your emotions are high. Where is this emotional turmoil taking you. I suppose the best thing to do is to balance and ground your life. Do at least 3 to 4 things every day that affirm your nature and that will keep you true to yourself.

I had a feeling that you might jump from one expression of yourself to another, almost no matter what it would be like, just to get this situation under your desired outcome. Control your emotions here, this is important.

When we are driven by emotions we tend to move into opposite directions very quickly, therefore practice something that grounds you just for the sake of it. For example, sit for 5 minutes with the sole of the feet firm into the ground visualizing roots coming down of your feet.

Meditate on the pull of gravity or visualize a rock and feel that you are absorbing its qualities.

Also affirm: “If this love is to be mine it will come to me, if it is not mine, I don’t want it”… we can’t steal people from their lives just because we think we want them.

Another affirmation that you could use is: “For the benefit of all parts involved, this love or a better one is coming to me now”

I hope this helps. In other words, you have to put yourself in the most favorable conditions to attract the best love possible instead of fixing on a specific outcome, especially when your vision could be not clear because of your emotional involvement.

How to be loved by everyone?
How to be satisfied with oneself?
How one can help make a society a lovely place to live?

Self satisfaction has to do with what in yoga is called Contentment. When one is content there is no compulsion of violence. Self contentment is generated by living a simpler life, make your life simple. When it gets intense simplify it. If we reach out for something to get continuously then we create a sense of deep malcontent, because we always end up desiring what is not in the sphere of our availability. If we realize that after all we have all that we need and start simplifying our life, then we can start put beauty in it instead of trying to fix it or accumulating.

People love and are attracted by people who are happy and who are like them. If your heart is free from the compulsion of malcontent and inner violence, than you are at a state of rest… at that point happiness is natural, you have nothing to accomplish, your life is beautiful, therefore you can communicate with the other from love and compassion. Because you have nothing to accomplish you are free to listen to them completely, your mind is there and it is there with Joy. Would you love a person like that? I would. The greatness of such a person is palpable and what is even more incredible is that such a person gives you full attention and full love.

The last part of your question, in my opinion, has this simple answer: we should see people in our society as our higher self. It needs to be lived from your own center, but then it expands including the consciousness of everyone. As you start feeling and perceiving yourself as part of the puzzle of God, you know that you are interconnecting with the cosmic man. Society is the cosmic man.

Now, what is great is that this can be experienced through particular practices and techniques that will soon start you on the path of greater love.. like those that you can find in the Soulmate Connection course.

How can I get love?

Getting love is no different than being able to forget yourself in order to live love instead of trying to get it. This is not philosophy. I think it is a real great teachings. When we stop thinking that things are different than what they should be, love disappear. Love is present where the feeling of love is present.

You are NOT the only who is looking for love. EVERYONE is looking for love. Everyone wants it. Some people seem to be ugly but they are able to be surrounded by people who love them. I met someone like this several times. I admired them too, because they seemed radiating something special, I remembered that I didn’t even consider their physical aspect when in their presence.

To get love you need to attune yourself to love and forget about getting your IDEA of love or of what love is. Your wouldn’t get the real love and after sometime you wouldn’t be happy. I don’t believe in those people who create a list and then see if the person they meet has all the requirements.

Even if they would find someone like that, they would lose him… those qualities would change. You either stagnate or evolve, and if you stagnate you start going downward towards total unhappiness. But a love that is connected from the non-dual source of the aspect of Love will endure all changes.

Give up your self, your own limiting ideas, and try to experience the power of love into your daily life, then you can’t miss love because love is what you are. Everyone is looking for love, everyone will start responding to you with love. There is only love and love is what you give and get.

This is how you find love… and I apologize if I didn’t give an answer that would provide you with a little psychological push, this would give a permanent illusion of power and then you would be again where you are.

How can we know if a man really loves you ?
How can we know if a man is not lying to you?
How can we know if it is true or not when a man talks about marriage?
How can you really know if it is true or not when a man says I LOVE YOU?
How can we if there is no one else then you in his life ?

First of all, how do you feel? Be honest with this. Sometimes we ignore our intuition enough to create problems, instead our life could be easier if we would just listen to our inner voice. Then we rationalize and we get convinced of things that are not really adhering with reality.

Then, again here, you should look at your emotions and balance them first. Then have a look at the history of this person. Does he have a past of being not truthful, did he cheat on partners before?

Do you find YOURSELF lying often? If you do lie often, it is hard to see the Truth. Then start practicing being absolutely truthful for at least a month, and you will start seeing things more clearly.

On the other hand…. Are you putting pressure on this relationship? Are you trying to get him to say what you want to hear? Are you being a little pushy on this subject? We need to understand that people need their space and we need to respect their time too. Sometimes people would start saying beautiful things because there is a part of them that wants to believe it, even when it is not completely true at the moment. This means that the intentions are good and that you can build up a beautiful relationship from there.

My suggestion is: don’t rush up to buy your “packaged dream-love”. Start with what you have. Acts of kindness, gentleness and of love would plant good seeds. At that point you see what reaction you get. If the seeds you are planting are those of love and he responds with love, then it’s great, you have fertile ground to build upon. But BE CAREFUL: here is a WARNING: if he responds to love he will do so only in the way he thinks it is best, and not in the way YOU think it is best.

For example, if for you a proof of love would be receiving some flowers and for him is to buy a ticket to a horror movie, than you have to take that as an act of love. You know he is responding to love, therefore his feeling are growing genuine. You need to do something in order to see his responses and then accept that he will respond according to his temperament and character. Leave the expression of his love free from your own expectations. This is vital.

If he has someone else… well I am sure that sooner or later you will come to know. If you get involved with someone seriously, things start to “smell” when something is not quite right. You know there is something wrong. If you have planted good seeds, than you have the right to take him and say: “ if you want to stay with me, than stay with me, otherwise you have to leave immediately and leave me free to find new opportunities for my personal life”.

Again, never think it is too late for love. Everyone wants love, and if you become love, love is always there.

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SHADOWS
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Finally, we have so many shadows in our minds of people that tell us what love should be like, or what relationships should be like. Give them up! These shadows, 99.99% of the time are limiting you incredibly.

Allow yourself to have fun. Be true to yourself, no matter what people think. If you can’t be true to yourself you can’t find Truth in your life, you just can’t see it, and you can’t recognize true love.

Shadows are usually parts of ourselves that we are not supposed to like, but they are there. As soon as we give up the thought that something is good or bad we just live.

If no one told you what the “shadows” in your mind have been telling you, what would you do today?
If nobody would ever know, what would you do?
If it was really ok to do it and no risk at all, what would you do?

To Your Joy and Success
The Life Catalyst
Vincent Sandee

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